Mardi Gras in New Orleans

I am not sure where to begin. I usually breakdown an adventure by days but this time all the days are blurred together. It will try my best. This may end up being a long entry.

Let us start at the beginning. About 15 years ago I would go to single dances with DD. At an Orange County Dance I met Kellee who was just starting a 20s and 30s singles group. Even though I left California 8 years ago I still continued to stay on the emailing list. Not that I could ever go to anything over there but just for curiosity and to see how it was developing. I am glad I did say on. At the end of last year, Kellee had announced that she wanted to have her 40th birthday party in New Orleans for Mardi Gras. I saw that and said to myself, hey that is just a couple of hours away and I even get 3 days off for Mardi Gras. (That is Louisiana for you.) So I emailed her and she emailed me the details. So months later on Friday, February 17th, I was in an awesome 2 story house only a block away from Bourbon Street. The other people who came with Kellee to celebrate was her sister Mollie, Jeff, Julie (who came here from New Zealand), Linda, James and his 2 brothers, Larry and on Saturday, my Dad. Also a couple who have come to stay in the house every year for Mardi Gras were Jon and Bridgette. That is 12 people in the house not including Ride the host and owner of the house.

James and Jeff would at different times cook something so we had home cooked meals at least once a day. From what I remember we had gumbo, roast, spaghetti and for breakfast pancake, eggs and sausage. I had also brought 2 king cakes from a Lafayette bakery thinking that most of the people had never had king cake before.

I arrived at the house in New Orleans (after going through some traffic. Luckily I know my way around). What a gorgeous house. Lots of antique furniture. The house is 2 stories with 5 rooms and a room in the attic. It is a block away from Bourbon street and we have our own balcony. My house mates and I went to see one of the parades but left early because we were hungry. On the way back we were separated because of the crowds. This is where Mollie had made out with someone she just met. When we all arrived back at the house and I found out, the competition was on. It was originally between Mollie and I (ya I know she is a girl and the would probably beat me but I wanted to try). Kellee said she was too picky early on and apparently threw that out the window when she was far behind in the competition.

It was getting late and most of us decided to eat dinner at the Orleans Grapevine Wine Bar and Bistro. The owner of the bistro, Pam, knows Ride and began visiting with us. We discovered that she also owns all the Tropical Isle bars and was the one who came up with the Hand Grenade. When I asked her how she came up with it, she answered that her and her friends were drunk and tried different combinations. She is a much older woman new (maybe past her 60′s) and she was really fun to talk to. Then back to the house to hang out with the other house mates.

On Saturday I went with Jon (he dresses every year as the naked Indian and ends up receiving a lot of attention on the street) and Bridgette (who comes with Jon to Mardi Gras every year also) invited me to join them at a party with at Lafitte’s Blacksmith Shop. It is one of the oldest bars in New Orleans. He introduced me to a lot of his friends. This is also where my first make out happened. It was a nice kiss and she was quite pretty. Jon’s friends were a lot of fun. It also rained very hard while we were in the bar. When it stopped raining we started heading back to the house.

On the way back Jon would be stopped many times for people to take pictures with him. As we passed by a bar on the corner of our street, 3 girls in the bar wanted a picture with him so we went in. This is how Mardi Gras is. Sometime during the picture taking all 3 of us, at the same time, were each making out with one of the girls. Crazy huh. After that I gave the other 2 a lip kiss goodbye. I was ahead in the competition for now. Then back to the house for some hang out time before going out again.

In the evening we all went to The Boondock Saint bar. This is where a lot of locals and Mardi Gras regulars go. I met lots of people and got lots of lip kisses. I enjoyed talking to a cute girl who said that her dad use to play in the Steve Miller Band. Came back to the house since DD was arriving from the airport. Showed him the house and showed him where he was sleeping. Do not remember much else about this night. It was about 11p when DD arrived.

Sunday Kellee, Jeff, DD and I went to the St Louis Cathedral for mass and the archbishop was saying Mass. A nice cathedral and a great mass. Even the sermon was great and thought provoking. DD and I ate some gyros at Ali Baba’s. They are amazingly good gyros. We had gone there 3 times during this Mardi Gras trip. They were that good. Then just DD and I went to go see the Krewe of Thoth parade and then just walked Bourbon Street and watched all the crazy antics. Quite entertaining. For dinner, Jon wanted to take us to a nice local restaurant a block up from Bourbon. So we all ate at Deja Vu. Then more Bourbon Street fun. I also remember hanging out on the balcony of the Tropical Isle and one of the 3 cute girls wanted one of my fuzzy dice beads and would so something for it. So I said a kiss. She said she could not because she has a boyfriend so she got her friend to kiss me. Not a make out, but a nice 10 second lip kiss. She was cute and I still remember that kiss.

Monday, not sure exactly what happened. I remember DD and I going with Jon and Bridgette to the tropical Isle to meet some of Jon’s friends. DD and I hung out on the balcony and saw all the fun on the street. We also had some beads to throw off the balcony.

And the Freeks.

We then went with the rest of the people in the house to see a night parade. I think it was the Krewe of Orpheus. The New Orleans night parades are always amazing. While watching the parade I met a cute girl who was visiting from Argentina. It was fun talking to her. They wanted to see the carousel bar. It is a bar that slowly goes in a circle.

There was live music at the bar and DD, Larry and I went up to the dance floor and danced. DD of course had no problem finding a girl to dance with. Then DD and I went to a jazz club (can not remember the name). We then went hung out on the balcony and listened to the jazz that was coming from downstairs. While up stairs I met Megan, a gorgeous girl from a small city California, and her friend (can not remember her name). One of them wanted a nice bead DD was wearing and in the Mardi Gras way they both showed us “them”. Only during Mardi Gras do people just throw care into the wind and just do whatever. Oh, DD told Megan about the kissing competition. She wanted to help but she is married. She did however lip kiss me long enough for DD to take a picture. She was the prettiest girl I kissed in a long time.

Tuesday, Jeff made breakfast-lunch. He made eggs and can not remember what else he made. Whatever it was it was good. We (my house mates excluding Jon and Bridgette) went to go see the Krewe of Zulu parade. Then DD, Larry and I were hungry and also wanted to sit down for awhile so we went to the Arby’s near by. Then the Krewe of Rex started and we headed put to the parade. Then back to the house to hang and rest.

While I was hanging out on the house balcony I saw Dan, a fellow professor at my college, and his friend Adam. I invited them to come up and enjoy the view from the balcony. They thoroughly enjoyed being on the balcony. After resting and probably eating something in the house, Dan, Adam, DD and other house mates made there way to The Boondock Saint bar. My friend Kim from Lafayette was in New Orleans during this time and had been trying to meet up but always seemed to miss each other. She finally caught up with me at the Boondock Saint bar. I finally met her best friend Ashley. I told Kim about the make out competition and (as she put it later) pimped out Ashley. So I made out with Ashley after just meeting her. (Told you, crazy things happen during Mardi Gras). She is quite pretty and a good kisser.

I then followed Kim and Ashley to and S & M bar. I thought it would be exciting. It was a major disappointment. No real S & M. Just a dark, kind of gothic bar with hard rock blasting. I found out later that it was bought by someone else recently and it was not the same as it was. They then wanted to go to a lesbian bar by themselves so they escorted me back to the house. I gave them both a kiss goodnight and went upstairs. Kellee, Mollie and Ride were still up talking. Ride had just bought some oysters and asked if I ever had one. I never had so I gave it a try. I tried 3 of them. I like them. Different but good.

Wednesday, Mardi Gras was over. I took DD to Cafe Du Monde so he have some of the coffee everyone says is so good. I has some hot chocolate. I had had the hot chocolate on another trip to New Orleans in November a few years ago when the weather was cold so I knew the hot chocolate was good. DD also had his 1st beignet. We then walked around the French Market.

It was then time to pack up and go to my house. What an amazing trip. I made some new friends and the trip surpassed everything I imagined the trip would be.

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Happy Birthday Weblog

8 years ago I created this weblog at a very lonely time in my life. It was created to motivate myself to go out, take a drive and to see something new. I would then have to write about it here. Then on its birthday, I would recap with a link each year since until the current year where I would talk about my current state. Since the beginning of this year I have dedicated my time in living in the moment and thus focusing on the present. The past to me is behind a glass door. I see it and acknowledge it but does not effect me. So this year, this weblog is a tribute to my ongoing adventure in living in the moment. It so happens that this year my weblog’s birthday is on Ash Wednesday. So may I and this weblog be reborn in the new adventure.

Happy Decorated Cake Day Weblog!!!!!!
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Friends, New Friends and a Mardi Gras Parade

My day began with meeting a fellow couch surfer, Gil, and his 2 hosts for lunch at the French Press. The 2 hosts were husband and wife from France who just moved here a year and a half ago. It was a delightful lunch with talk of our different cultures. I then went home to do some laundry and met up with Gil before the parade at the Saint Mary Street Inn (which is a new restaurant-bar with an outdoor stage for bands). I had an Acadiana poboy that has chicken andouille. While there I ran into 2 fellow faculty, Patrick and Pat. I also ran into Jasmine (a musicologist I met last year at the Blue Moon Saloon) and a former counselor at my work.

Gil and I went out into the cold (it was 40 feels like 32 by now) to watched the parade. It was fun and in keeping with tradition, I caught something cool. Last year I had caught a stuffed animal or something cool (like a spear in New Orleans) at every parade. This year I caught a tomahawk. This is so cool. I then went back to the Saint Mary’s Street Inn for some gumbo to warm me up. By 9p, I was beat and cold so I went home to play some Diablo with G-Man and DD.

What a weekend!

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An Exciting Evening Out

What a friends and music filled day. It started pretty normal with teaching 2 classes followed with lunch at Agave with Micah. Then to a surprisingly informative faculty meeting. Then went home for a short nap. I then went to Alex’s graduate conducting recital. Other concert. And members were also there. After the recital, we all went to Deano’s. I ordered my usual which is a pizza with Louisiana smoked sausage. I then left them to meet up with my fellow faculty (Ben, Micah and his girl Heather, Pat and Kevin) at a dive bar, the Wild Salmon. I also saw a student of mine, Patrick who was in one of the bands was playing tonight. I also ran into Shannon (who I met 6 months ago and is the daughter of one of the concert band members). What a night!

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Last Bit of New Orleans

Today I took Kimberly to Cafe Envie for some coffee and pastries for a sorta breakfast. We were still hungry so I took her to the Mongolian Grill. She wanted a grilled cheese and I had the buffet while sitting outside watching people walk around the French Market. After we ate, we she wanted to walked the French Market. While we were in the French Market I bought this.

Ok, so I might have been influenced by living in Louisiana. It is a real alligator preserved. Looks pretty cool and is now living with my stuffed animals that I caught during the Mardi Gras parades last year.

I then took her to see the New Orleans cemetery. Many of the mausoleums are from the 1800′s. Stop at her hotel restaurant for some soda and then took her to the airport. It was great to see her and hangout again.

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New Orleans with Cute Voice

I had an amazing time with one of my best friends Kimberly in New Orleans. She was here
for a conference on Wednesday and was finished on Friday. So I came yesterday
to her hotel and had dinner at the hotel. Today I wanted her to experience the
food of New Orleans. For lunch I took her to The Gumbo Shop. We each had a cup
of gumbo. We shared the crab cakes and the crawfish étouffée. She really like
them. Then took her to Cafe de Monde for coffee (she had the coffee which she
said is was smooth) and a beignet and ate it on a bench watching the
Mississippi River. We then walked around the French Quarter and down Bourbon Street.
We then ate dinner at Murial’s. Kimberly had the duck and I had the fish
Pompano. She had to have the creme brûlée. So we shared one. She really
liked it. She really like the dinner. Then back to the hotel for sleep.

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The Long Trip Home

Thus begins the 12 hour 3 different flights day. Did not sleep well last night
(went to bed at about 1a and got up at 6a) so I am very tired. Even though DD
is going to LA and I to Lafayette, the first leg of our flight happened to be on
the same plane, each sitting on an isle seat, next to each other flying to
Portland.

We found a place to ear breakfast together near his gate. I had a cheese omelet.

Then is was time to say bye to DD and make my way to my gate.

Then landed in Dallas. Near my next gate I found a Cousin’s BBQ. It has been awhile since I have had Texas BBQ. This is good. I forgot how much I miss it.

Then finally made it home to the most comfortable bed in the world.

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New Possibilities

We all went to the Country buffet for breakfast-lunch. It is one of the few
places we can eat with Oryn because we can get our food right away. I even got
to feed Oryn strawberry bananas. Then back home to copy all our pictures for
each other. Pictures from my phone and my camera, pictures from DD’s phone and
camera and pictures from AD’s phone. We also hung out and talked. It has been
a fun and relaxing.

I am also a different person than I was when I arrived here. I see the world
with new possibilities and living in the present. Not the past or the future.
Because when you live in either one of those you miss the present.

The other thing that I have learned is to be happy or at least content with the
present. For too long I have been saying that I am currently in transition
mode or survival mode. Look to the future but enjoy the present. Time goes by
really quickly and I want to be able to look back and say I did all I could and
I enjoyed everything I could. I enjoyed my vacation here. Tomorrow it is time
for me to make other memories back home and to live in the moment because all we
really have control over is the present.

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Happy New Year!!!!!!

We all went to the Northwest Museum of Arts and Culture. Saw Native American
clothes and tools, some modern art and some impressionistic paintings. We also
self toured the 1898 Campell house with period furniture. A big house with lots
of rooms. It was really nice.

Then home to drop off Oryn and Mom. The rest of us went to eat at the Red
Robin. Then back home to hang out.

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And So It Begins

“And so it begins”

The day began as it has every day here with a short drive to AD and JK’s house
to hang out. Had some food and then, as Oryn says, went “bye bye” (went out) to
an area where there are trails, trees, a waterfall and a river. Well, no water
coming off the waterfall because everything is frozen. We did all enjoy the
trail anyway.

DD and I also took a short trail to see the river.

Then back home to get ready to perform at 1st night. We arrived
sometime before 5p to be part of the parade. AD and I led the parade while
playing our djembes next to the big pink dragon.

JK and DD each held
a lighted palm tree during the parade.

AD and JK went to see a dance company performance while DD and I went to see the
belly dancing-burlesque performance. It ended with a feather dance.

Then met AD and the other SCC Players at the library where we going to perform
the 3 folk stories. We did 3 performances. The last of the 3 was surprisingly
the best. (Usually you are burned out after performing 3 times in a row.) The
last also had the biggest crowd. I really had fun performing with them. After
the 3rd performance we quickly cleaned up to be able to see the fireworks at
midnight. We made it right when the countdown was at 8. While watching the
fireworks a phrase pop into my mind “this is the year everything changes, for the
better”.

We were hungry so I paid for Taco Bell and when to there home to eat it.

“And so it begins!”

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First Night Rehearsal and Greek Food

Rehearsed with the SCC Players for 1st night. What AD has done is to bring
together 6 of his students that he has previously worked with in other plays he
had directed at the college to present 3 folk tales. There is no lead in these
scenes and everyone is playing multiple parts even within the same folk tale. AD,
JK and I are providing the “soundtrack” and sometimes the sound effects during
the scenes. AD and JK are also acting and I have a small part to play also.

Then we went to West Wing. a Greek place that we could smell garlic from the
parking lot. I had sevloki which was really good. Then went to Shiri’s to bring
some peanut butter chocolate pie home. We then had some pie and watched Love
Stinks (which these days I agree). It was a funny movie and I did laugh a lot.
(If only I was mean enough to pull off the things he did in that movie on the
last person I dated). Then back to Mom’s to get ready for bed
and play on my childhood piano sight reading and improvising.

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First Night Rehearsal

Rehearsal with AD and the SCC players for 1st night. Then ate at Azteca. Not
much else besides hanging out.

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More Hangout Time

More hang out time. We did go see a movie while Mom watched Oryn. We went to
go see Tintin. A good movie with action one would see in a comic.

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Percussion Rehearsal for First Night

We stayed in all day hanging out. AD and I rehearsed the percussion parts for
1st night. AD and his SCC Players are performing 3 folk tails for 1st night on
New Years Eve. I will mostly be playing percussion and adding a “soundtrack” to
the performance. I do have a small acting part also. This should be fun.

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Hanging Out and Eating Leftovers

Not much to write about today. We had lunch at pancake house and walked around
the mall for a bit. Then while Mom watched Oryn, we went to see Mission
Impossible 4. It was good but not great. Then the rest of the day was spend
hanging out and eating leftovers.

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White Christmas

Christmas Day with DD, AD, JK, Mom and Oryn. Snow is still on the ground so it
is still a white Christmas. A day of food, opening presents and laughter. Even
Oryn opened presents. Turkey dinner with mashed potatoes and stuffing. We even
passed around the Opłatek (a Christmas Wafer) in memory of Nana. We Skyped
Bonnie so she could see Oryn in action.

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Biały Wesołych Świąt

Thinking of Nana who we would spend Christmas Eve with. I still think of her
smile, her laugh, her yelling at the TV while watching a game and of course the
Gołabki. Since we use to have dinner at her house at Christmas Eve, it was
always the day we celebrated Christmas. So when I woke up this morning,
it was snowing! So to me I had a white Christmas.

AD, JK, DD, Mom, Oryn and I went to Coeur d’Alene, Idaho. We first went to
Fernan Lake which was frozen over. So we all went to walk on the water. It was
fun. We walked to the other side of the lake. To us Californians this was
cool.

Then to downtown Coeur d’Alene and had hot chocolate next to the fire place at
the Coeur d’Alene Resort.

Oh, since we do not to have enough room in the fridge, our Christmas dinner is
currently outside under some snow staying cold.

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Ducks and Geese

AD, JK, DD, Mom, Oryn and I went to downtown Spokane to take a walk in the
Riverfront Park. Oryn really liked watching all the ducks and geese walking
around. There were packs of them.

We then walked around the mall with Oryn in
a stroller in a shape of a car. Oryn really liked “driving” his yellow car.

Then came home to AD and JK’s house, had pizza and watched The Muppet Christmas
Carol. AD and I have to watch it every year around Christmas.

Mom and I then went home to her house where I am staying. I played the piano
improvising around the melodies of the Christmas carols. I was reading the
melodies and chords changes out of the same book I use to read from back when I
lived in California and playing on the same piano. Feels different this time.
It was not nostalgic like is usually is. It was more like remembering that time
but with no emotional connection. I am a different person than I was when I
lived in California. I no longer look toward the past with what ifs. I now
look at the future with why not.

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A 12 hour Travel Day

What a very long day. Started at 8a when I woke up and finished packing my
stuff for the trip to Spokane. Marcine drove DD and I to the LA airport. After
going through security, we ate at a restaurant near our gate. We had a couple
of hours before our flight so we just took our time eating lunch.

Then onto the about 3 hour flight to Seattle. A little bumpy but uneventful.
The Seattle airport is confusing and even more so now with the construction near
the B gates. Took us about an hour to eventually arrive at our B gate.

Time for food. DD had spaghetti and I had a large slice of pizza. We all then
got on the plane to our seats. Then we waited. And waited and waited for 45
minutes. It takes that long to fly to Spokane. We had been there already. No
explanation until 45 minutes later when that announced that they had to deice
the plane. It took that long to deice a plane? Pah-lease. The flight itself
was uneventful. Oh for drinks they did not have soda. Only water, juices, wine
and beer. The wine and beer were free this time. Since I have never had wine
on a plane I took advantage of that and had a glass.

Finally landed in Spokane around 8p. AD and JK came to pick DD and I up from the
airport. Man it is cold here. It is 18 degrees. Way too cold for DD and I who
were not really wearing the proper clothing to keep us warm. They took us to a
new place for all of us for dinner. We ate at Corey’s. Pretty good and I also
had the chocolate pie which was amazing. Then to their house. DD is staying
there and I went home with Mom. What a loooooong over 12 hour day.

Oh, I did say hi to the family piano that I started playing on when I was 3. I
improvised on it for a bit which was so natural it felt like I was back home
after being gone for so many years.

So tired. Time for bed.

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Friends and Family

Today DD and I went to meet Bonnie (my mom’s sister) and Jean (a friend of
Nana’s and has known me since I was born) at Souplantation for lunch. We were
there for at least 3 hours talking and eating. It was really nice to see Jean
again. I had not seen her since Nana’s funeral in 08. DD had church stuff to
do and Jean has more shopping to do so I hung out for the rest of the afternoon
hanging out with Bonnie at her house.

For dinner I drove to my friend Andrew’s house. We ended up at a fusion Asian
restaurant. I had the lemon chicken which was really good. We also has a
really nice conversation.

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